Stop surviving your days.
A gospel-centered, step-by-step approach to training your children that begins with your heart and ends with a home you actually love being in.
A book for the mother who wants to thrive
Start enjoying
your children.
With All Joy · 16 short chapters ·
Now paired with the full Signature Method video course
You begged God for this family. So why do the days feel like
But you've been left with the same question every honest mom eventually asks out loud: "Okay — but then what?" You know why obedience matters. What you've never been handed is the how.
So you cope. You escape into your phone. You count down to bedtime and call it a day. You assume some women were simply handed easy children — and that yours are the exceptionally hard ones.
It isn't true. The reality is that every child is trained. Some are trained well, some poorly, and most of it happens by accident. There is another way — and it doesn't begin with your kids. It begins with you.
You know the heart issues matter most. You've read the books that say so.
If you're honest
exhaustion, frustration, and a low hum of failure?
What this book actually is
is the mentor you wish you'd had in those first overwhelmed years — the friend who walked through the trenches, gained the wisdom, and refuses to hold any of it back.
With All Joy
It is heart and how-to in one place. Equally focused on your child's heart and your own. Practical without being cold. Honest without the pressure of perfection.
"We always talked about how we wished there was something with practical applications and not just the heart-issue stuff.
The heart matters most — but then we're always like, 'BUT THEN WHAT?!' This is just that."
— Casey L.
Picture the mother you long to be — and the home where your children actually know what to do, and find joy in it. That home isn't reserved for women with easy kids. It's built, on purpose, starting with you. With All Joy shows you exactly how. Everything's waiting just below.
with all joy book
introducing...
You show your child exactly what's expected — clearly, concisely, and in joyful tones. They watch the skill done right before they're ever asked to perform it themselves.
Here's the trick that changes everything: let your child teach you. A child learns a skill most thoroughly when they're the one instructing it — without the pressure of being tested.
One repeatable rhythm. Endless ways to use it.
MODEL IT
PRACTICE TOGETHER
STAGE ONE
Now it's their turn — in real scenarios, in different rooms, building toward true life situations. And when obedience slips months later, you don't re-train. You simply reset.
INDEPENDENT PRACTICE
The Signature Method
At the center of the book is a way of training that is joyful, not disciplinary — practice for real life, run the same way every single time. It moves through three stages.
Clear · Concise · Consistent
STAGE TWO
Role-play · Reverse it · Make it fun
Test · Reinforce · Reset
STAGE THREE
"Remember — this is just practice. You're giving a dry run of what you'll expect in real time later on."
key point
“This course made my business dreams come true! I made six figures, and I couldn't have done it without Kate!”
- SARAH
Kind words
Inside the book
Built to be read by a busy mom — concise enough to finish, deep enough to change your home.
Sixteen short chapters. Heart first, then the how-to.
A final word of honor, joy, and hope.
16
TAKE A LITTLE PEEK
Dream ahead. Imagine the possibilities and envision the end from the beginning.
01
02
I want to enjoy this time — but what if I just don't?
"Accepted helplessness" — what it is, and why it's unacceptable.
03
The one way we are just like our children.
04
Obedience can't be the highest aim — so what should be?
05
A word about grace — and one of the biggest lies we believe.
06
07
The phrase to stop saying — and two to start saying.
What training actually is — and how it differs from discipline.
08
How early should I begin training?
09
The step-by-step guide — exactly what to do and what to say.
10
Real-life how-to — identifying problem areas and thinking creatively.
11
Brainstorm the trainings possible in your own home.
12
13
When they don't follow through — what to do next.
Your game plan — a solid, individualized plan for your family.
14
The one thing in parenting to never, ever stop.
15
I wrote this because I was once the lost one.
I begged God for a family, and wept when we were told we'd never have children. When my dreams were finally fulfilled, it broke my heart that my days were overwhelmed with exhaustion and an ever-present feeling of failure. I fumbled through those early years searching for answers — and I decided long ago that if I ever met another mom who felt the way I did, I would never hold back from passing along what I'd learned.
Everything in these pages was learned in the most invisible moments of my life — the unseen, ordinary, difficult ones. Your life matters, and this role you've been given is one of honor.
From me to you
love, meg
What mothers are saying
Real homes. Real change.
Casey L. · son 4, daughters 3, 1
"We always talked about how we wished there was something with practical applications and not just the heart-issue stuff. The heart matters most — but then we're always like, 'BUT THEN WHAT?!' This is just that."
The Lord used Meg's words to give me a process to respond to my children in a calm and effective way. Her words help ground me.
Kristina · sons 7, 5
Brooke S. · son, daughter
A breath of fresh air that gives moms the freedom and direction to make a plan and feel successful — without the pressure of perfection.
Kimberly V. · daughters 6, 4
Meg's teaching is revolutionizing my parenting. She writes from a place of experience and truth, and leaves you inspired and utterly convicted in the sweetest way.
Lauren L.. · daughters 6, 4, 2
I want to be honest — the first half made me skeptical. I'd assumed Meg just had easy kids. I now see she wasn't magically gifted with obedient children. This book gave me the hope to change the trajectory of our entire home — starting with me.
Ashten M. · three under 7
"Easy and very tangible ways to help kids obey, bring sanity to your routines, and ease your frustrations. It will truly bring joy into your home and your heart."
Prayerfully ask the Lord to change you before you seek to change your home. Then begin. The days are long, but these years go by far too fast.
room to
— not just survive
thrive
A home with order, peace, and
"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it."
— Proverbs 22:6
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